Signs to Recognize

It’s hard to recognize early signs
of teen drinking


M
ost parents are overconfident in believing they would know if their child was drinking. Unfortunately, all of Owen County’s teens are at risk for use and abuse of alcohol. As parents, it is important to be aware of this risk and to continuously monitor your teen. However, identifying signs of early alcohol use in children can be difficult even with careful monitoring.
One sign that your child is experimenting, or considering doing so, could be a casual mention that one or more of your teen’s friends is drinking. Or, your child may say that one of their friend’s parents lets their teen drink. These could be “trial balloons” to test your reaction to underage drinking.

It is likely that there
will be

No visible
Signs of early
experimentation
Other early signs of experimentation might include laughing or joking about friends’ alcohol use, alcohol advertisements, or other alcohol-related scenes in TV shows or movies. Your teen may acquire alcohol-related promotional items such as T-shirts, mugs, stickers, etc. It is also likely that there will be no visible signs of early experimentation.

By the time a parent recognizes physical and personality changes, the teen is already engaging in heavy alcohol use and could be developing serious abuse problems. While some common warning signs of alcohol abuse are listed below, please keep in mind that because these signs often don’t become visible until the teen has been drinking for a quite awhile, the most effective approach in reducing teen alcohol usage is through ongoing monitoring. By monitoring, you can find out if your teen is using alcohol before these signs become visible and serious abuse problems may already exist.

Signs that may
indicate a problem with substance abuse

Some of the signs of alcohol abuse below may also be “normal” adolescent behavior. What is not “normal,”
however, is if more than a few of the following signs listed below are present. Such a combination of changes could indicate a serious problem.




Personality or Behavior Changes
• Abrupt changes in mood or attitude
• More irritable or argumentative
• Sudden decline in attendance or performance at school
• Rebelling against family rules
• Sudden resistance to discipline at school
• Uncharacteristic withdrawal from family or friends
• “Nothing matters” attitude; losing interest in school, sports or other activities that used to be important
• Physical, emotional or mental problems
• Memory lapses
• Poor concentration
• Needs more money — or money missing
• Heightened secrecy about actions or possessions
• Switching friends
• Associating with a new group of friends whom your child refuses to discuss
• Finding alcohol in your child’s room or belongings
Physical Changes
• Less appetite or continually hungry
• Loss or gain of weight
• Less interested in appearance
• Circles under eyes and pale skin, including face
• Bloodshot eyes
• Slurred or rapid speech
• Smell of alcohol on breath, or sudden, frequent use of breath mints


If you have a concern or think there may be a problem, share your concern with your child. Believe in your power to help your child, but don’t be afraid to seek help if you feel overwhelmed, or uncertain, or simply want more information. If you believe that your child may be having trouble, contact your child’s physician for professional advice or assessment; if needed, obtain a referral to a health care professional specializing in alcohol-related problems.