Signs to Recognize
of teen drinking
Most parents are overconfident in believing they would know if their child was drinking. Unfortunately, all of Owen County’s teens are at risk for use and abuse of alcohol. As parents, it is important to be aware of this risk and to continuously monitor your teen. However, identifying signs of early alcohol use in children can be difficult even with careful monitoring.
One sign that your child is experimenting, or considering doing so, could be a casual mention that one or more of your teen’s friends is drinking. Or, your child may say that one of their friend’s parents lets their teen drink. These could be “trial balloons” to test your reaction to underage drinking.
It
is likely that there
will be
No
visible
Signs of
early
experimentation
Other
early signs of experimentation might include
laughing or joking about friends’ alcohol use,
alcohol advertisements, or other alcohol-related
scenes in TV shows or movies. Your teen may acquire
alcohol-related promotional items such as T-shirts,
mugs, stickers, etc. It is also likely that there
will be no visible signs of early experimentation.
By the
time a parent recognizes physical and personality
changes, the teen is already engaging in heavy
alcohol use and could be developing serious abuse
problems. While some common warning signs of
alcohol abuse are listed below, please keep in mind
that because these signs often don’t become visible
until the teen has been drinking for a quite
awhile, the most effective approach in reducing
teen alcohol usage is through ongoing monitoring.
By monitoring, you can find out if your teen is
using alcohol before these signs become visible and
serious abuse problems may already exist.
Signs
that
may
indicate a problem with substance abuse
Some
of the signs of alcohol abuse below may also be
“normal” adolescent behavior. What is not “normal,”
however, is if more than a few of the following
signs listed below are present. Such a combination
of changes could indicate a serious
problem.
Personality
or Behavior Changes
•
Abrupt changes in mood or attitude
• More irritable or argumentative
• Sudden decline in attendance or performance at
school
• Rebelling against family rules
• Sudden resistance to discipline at school
• Uncharacteristic withdrawal from family or
friends
• “Nothing matters” attitude; losing interest in
school, sports or other activities that used to be
important
• Physical, emotional or mental problems
• Memory lapses
• Poor concentration
• Needs more money — or money missing
• Heightened secrecy about actions or possessions
• Switching friends
• Associating with a new group of friends whom your
child refuses to discuss
• Finding alcohol in your child’s room or
belongings
Physical
Changes
•
Less appetite or continually hungry
• Loss or gain of weight
• Less interested in appearance
• Circles under eyes and pale skin, including face
• Bloodshot eyes
• Slurred or rapid speech
• Smell of alcohol on breath, or sudden, frequent
use of breath mints
If you
have a concern or think there may be a problem,
share your concern with your child. Believe in your
power to help your child, but don’t be afraid to
seek help if you feel overwhelmed, or uncertain, or
simply want more information. If you believe that
your child may be having trouble, contact your
child’s physician for professional advice or
assessment; if needed, obtain a referral to a
health care professional specializing in
alcohol-related problems.